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A Memoir of Inheritance, Endurance, and Learning to Stay

The Eleventh
Kilometer

He walked 11 kilometers to build a future. I crossed an ocean — and still didn't know where I was going.

For years, I thought I was choosing my own path.
Only later did I realize — I was repeating his.

This is a story about what we inherit… and what it takes to finally stay.

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About the Author

J. R. Sandadi

Author · Interfaith Advocate · Community Leader

J. R. Sandadi was born in Hyderabad, India, and came to the United States in 1991. Carmel, Indiana, has been home for twenty-five years. After 23 years at Unisys, he left corporate life at the end of 2017 to give his time to sewa, or selfless service. He is Board Chairman of the Center for Interfaith Cooperation and Joint Executive Director of the Great Lakes Zone of Hindu Swayamsevak Sangh USA. He also tutors children experiencing homelessness through Brightlane Learning and has run all six World Marathon Majors. The Eleventh Kilometer is his first book.

This book is what happened when I stopped. It began with my father. Not the man I knew, but the boy I never met — growing up in rural Telangana. Understanding that boy helped me understand the man I had become.

— J. R., from his note on writing the memoir

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Praise for the Book

“An immigrant story, a family story, and ultimately a story about what really matters in life. The Eleventh Kilometer is deeply hopeful and beautifully human. It tells one person's story and somehow helps you understand your own.”

— Rev. Jerry Zehr

“Raw, genuine, and deeply reflective, The Eleventh Kilometer traces how the wisdom and strength we inherit from our parents can shape us in ways we may not recognize until much later. Through family, loss, immigration, and the discipline of running, JR Sandadi shows how hardship can be transformed into purpose. This is not a celebrity story, but an intentional life—one that reminds us to stop sleepwalking and move through our own lives with greater awareness and meaning.”

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The Eleventh Kilometer

One arc. Six steps.

From a village road to a life of service — follow the walk that became a life.

From the Memoir

I came home irritated.

A plate of upma sat on the table—soft, white, steaming.

I pushed it.

It slid, then crashed onto the floor.

My mother turned from the stove.
She didn't shout. She didn't react.

She just looked at me.

That look stayed with me longer than the anger.

About the Book

Two journeys.
One inheritance.

This book traces two parallel lives — a father and a son — and the quiet truth that passed between them.

The Father

The Son

Vattem, Telangana
First in family with a degree

Vattem → BITS Pilani → Carmel, IN
Angry. Lost. Restless. 11,000 km from home.

Civil servant — quit at peak
Left everything. On purpose.

Corporate America — quit at peak
Years given. Years lost.

11 km before sunrise, every day
Discipline. Silence. Presence.

Six World Marathon Majors
Running. Loss. Searching.

32 years building spiritual institutions
Karma Yogi

From finish lines to boardroom bridges
Learning what it means to serve

  • A father's sacrifice that became a son's standard
  • Three losses that changed everything

चरैवेति चरैवेति
Charaiveti Charaiveti — Keep Moving Keep Moving.
The ancient Sanskrit mantra that runs through every page — until the question becomes: moving toward what?

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Who This Book Is For

You might recognize
parts of yourself.

  • You have carried a loss you haven't named yet
  • You've moved fast — career, ambition, miles — and felt empty at the finish
  • You think about what your parents sacrificed and wonder if you've honoured it
  • You've asked yourself: what am I actually running toward?

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Where to Get the Book

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The Kindle eBook, paperback, and hardcover are available now in the US. The paperback is available in Bharat from Garuda Prakashan.

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